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With higher mobility and more communication among communities, many people have married a 'foreigner' or are planning to marry one. | By Raga Rajput on Monday, November 27, 2000 - 03:07 am: |
RRTK/Jat Punjabi/Taj and all others..
I can easily say that you all are the same person,you all have a common dislike for Hindus,so the conclussion that i come to is that,according to you we Indians can not share similar views,if we do we are related,wow,what a load of crapp,it surprises you that we Hindus can unite and share our common views against hate groups like you all belong to.
We Hindus do sit down and during gatherings share our ideology of likes and dislikes and the most common dislike is Pakistan,China,Brits and now the Khalistan,in that order.We are forming groups and organisations all over the world to tackle Indias image and defense.Jai Hind.
| By Anonymous on Monday, November 27, 2000 - 10:03 am: |
By Raga Rajput on Monday, November 27, 2000 - 01:37 am:
RRTK/Jat Punjabi/Taj and all others..
"I can easily say that you all are the same person,you all have a common dislike for Hindus,so the conclussion that i come to is that,according to you we Indians can not share similar views,if we do we are related,wow,what a load of crapp,it surprises you that we Hindus can unite and share our common views against hate groups like you all belong to.
We Hindus do sit down and during gatherings share our ideology of likes and dislikes and the most common dislike is Pakistan,China,Brits and now the Khalistan,in that order.We are forming groups and organisations all over the world to tackle Indias image and defense."
I said I will not reply, and in future I will abstain. But I would like to clarify, that contrary to your claims, I am a person called Anonymous and am not masquerading as RRTK or JatPunjabi. Why do you come to this conclusion? Is it that you Raga and Raghu are the same person? Or do you resort to name changing tactics as a general habit and enter the discussion group again since in your last name you could achieve nothing much useful? I do not have such needs as one name suffices for me. But, yours very anonymously, would like to tell you I share no body, mind or soul with your RRTK or your JatPunjabi -at least in this world.
But truly, I found it encouraging to reach out to two other sane voices here. So thanks JatPunjabi and Ram Rawinder Thomas Khan. Keep it up!
Also do not reflect your sentiments on me (another Freudian case of "projection"). You might dislike all the minorities in your country, but that does not mean I (or we) dislike Hindus. I share no common dislike like you do and what you do is your problem. Yes, you might say, we may be, in a way, united in humanity - the most important thing in this world. And how do you know we are not Hindus ourselves? So -again - do not shoot in the air. You all have really a capacity to imagine and make up your own stories. (Is that how you wrote the history of India?) Stick to facts, I repeat again.
Good that your types of Hindus sit down and share ideology of likes and dislikes. I need no discussion groups in order to find or define my likes and dislikes. I simply like or do not like.
Great to know your common dislike is Pakistan, China, Brits and Khalistan and in that order. At least you got your act together there - you specifically know whom you hate and in what order of importance (hate is a wonderful thing - gets you organised for a change. Doesn't it?). Now, if you could transfer such clarity in your other dealings, to begin with, your responses to my post (since they are no responses but blind shots in the air, but can forget it now since I am no longer interested in this but perhaps it benefits someone else).
You can opt out of the task of improving India's image as India does not require your help. She can self-help herself as there are more than enough Indians to do that. The pure reason is, that you will be doing a disservice rather than any service to India.
(P.S. You are forming groups and organisations world over? I see, so you live all over the world, India is not enough? Somehow your living world over in various cultures, invited or uninvited, is okay - but when others come to your world to live and most of your so-called "others" who are born in India and are very Indian, then suddendly your little world becomes impure? Double standards again? Watch your butts, what if minorities like you run into trouble in other countries - what then?)
And do not corrupt Jai Hind. You do not deserve to say it. So JAI HIND
To the Editor:
Writing one more time. Thanks again.
| By Raghu on Monday, November 27, 2000 - 04:01 pm: |
Hey anonymous dummy, so some fool writes hate mail and u assume that its an Indian and that represents the entire country. Good on u, you're not bad either, just stupid. This "Indian" could well not be an Indian or just someone who wants to write crap and watch us take shots at eachother.
| By Raga Rajput on Monday, November 27, 2000 - 07:15 pm: |
Anonymous.
Wow all that indegestion you have,just flew over my head,you wonder why nobody replies your posts,simple your inability to explain,to whom you are questioning and as to what you are implying,it is so very confusing.So i am second guessing.
And dont judge me,you are in no position to decide who can claim Jai Hind.Your emotional state seems to be intoxicacted,your blabbering naration seems to indicate that you are a lost soul and that history has not taught you any lessons,you live your life day to day,in a cocoon like habitat and have outbursts of pathetic chivalry,to justify your existence.
By a simple acknowledgment of RRTK and Jat Punjabi,you are showing that you and your kind are the ones that want to disect HINDUSTAN,(i wonder if you have read their earlier posts,Poision),you follow a Ghandian nad Nehruvian philosophies,look the other way and offer your other cheek,sadly that has not helped HINDUSTAN,all our cheeks are sore,and now you come along and say well,here,i offer my Wife and daughters,take them as long as you leave me,safe and sound in my COCOON,selfish,mindless cockroach,you have no pride.I have read my history and my religion and dont need a lecture from,incapable,undeciding individuals like you.You only take sides when the situation favours you.
I am not against Gandhi ji's ideology,but you need a level playing field to implement them,and this world which is full of Tyrants,predominently,MUSLIM and CHRISTIAN.Whos ideology do you follow? Answer; a Baniyas(money lenders)
But as i said you are lost,and shows why you are content with ANONYMOUS.
| By Raga Rajput on Monday, November 27, 2000 - 07:15 pm: |
Anonymous.
Wow all that indegestion you have,just flew over my head,you wonder why nobody replies your posts,simple your inability to explain,to whom you are questioning and as to what you are implying,it is so very confusing.So i am second guessing.
And dont judge me,you are in no position to decide who can claim Jai Hind.Your emotional state seems to be intoxicacted,your blabbering naration seems to indicate that you are a lost soul and that history has not taught you any lessons,you live your life day to day,in a cocoon like habitat and have outbursts of pathetic chivalry,to justify your existence.
By a simple acknowledgment of RRTK and Jat Punjabi,you are showing that you and your kind are the ones that want to disect HINDUSTAN,(i wonder if you have read their earlier posts,Poision),you follow a Ghandian nad Nehruvian philosophies,look the other way and offer your other cheek,sadly that has not helped HINDUSTAN,all our cheeks are sore,and now you come along and say well,here,i offer my Wife and daughters,take them as long as you leave me,safe and sound in my COCOON,selfish,mindless cockroach,you have no pride.I have read my history and my religion and dont need a lecture from,incapable,undeciding individuals like you.You only take sides when the situation favours you.
I am not against Gandhi ji's ideology,but you need a level playing field to implement them,and this world which is full of Tyrants,predominently,MUSLIM and CHRISTIAN.Whos ideology do you follow? Answer; a Baniyas(money lenders)
But as i said you are lost,and shows why you are content with ANONYMOUS.
| By Jat Punjabi on Monday, November 27, 2000 - 10:34 pm: |
Raga,
I am surprised that you haven't noticed so far that I don't believe in hating people just because of their color, race or religion and I don't believe in Khalistan. Also, in case you haven't noticed so far, I spell things in American way. For example, in Indian/British English, honor would be spelled as honour. So, you should know that I am not TAJ, Anonymous or RRTK.
More later....
| By Raga Rajput on Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 06:45 am: |
Jat Punjabt..
Sorry bro,i lost it there for a split second,i am fully aware of your level mindedness,sorry again,and please note,that when i say Khalistan i am not reffering to Sikhs.
Sikhs are genuine people,and Khalistanis are the ones that live 12,000,miles away from Punjab,and dont have to face any danger,they get the poor uneducated Gabroo to do their terrorist works,they have embraced the Pakistanis,the very people that inflicted so much pain and suffering towards India.
| By Raghu on Wednesday, January 24, 2001 - 08:37 am: |
hey anonymous, stop licking the white man's boot and accept that non Hindus in India get equal opportunity as Hindus. We have non Hindus as Army generals, Police Chiefs, Nuclear scientists, celebrities, artists, media persons, sports persons etc.
there's no country in the western world where you'll find non majority community holding such important positions.
mAYBE YOU SHOLD VISIT INDIA someday and see for yourself instead of participating in the discussions at your white masters' barbeque.
| By Desi on Wednesday, January 24, 2001 - 08:27 am: |
hey anonymous, don't ignore(conveniently) the sellout Indian mentality. It's time real Indians united and had some pride in their culture and heritage. You're just another spineless, backboneless brown babu with a slave mentality towards the whites.
| By Anonymous on Saturday, March 10, 2001 - 06:40 pm: |
We are 1 people and 1 Planet.
| By chaosgold on Monday, July 30, 2001 - 12:24 am: |
American Guy with SI Brahmin from Hyderabad
I met this wonderful girl while in college. She is a dream to be with, very cultured, somewhat naive but makes up for it with intelligence. She grew up in Hyderabad and has been in the US only for about 18 months for study.
Her brothers and parents are vehemently against us dating, and promptly made her move away from me when she told them about us.
I'm interested in marrying her and she holds similar desires, but is succumbing to the wishes of her family to forget that I ever existed. She speaks of her parents becoming ill if she married me, and of them disowning her.
I believe that her parents will eventually come around if we are married, but she doubts it because her younger brother says she should have just killed them instead of talking about marrying a while American.
Whaddya think, any hope of winning over her brothers and parents to supporting this marriage?
| By Anonymous on Sunday, July 29, 2001 - 08:48 pm: |
I live in America and married a girl in India last year, now we want to file for a divorce. I heard there is something called divorce in absentia in India that I can file without actually being there.
Can someone give me websites or numbers of lawyers in India that I can contact to get this done?
Many thanks in advance...
| By Anil on Wednesday, September 05, 2001 - 10:09 pm: |
Anil
How do i date an american girl?Help me. How can i
make them friends
| By AK on Friday, September 07, 2001 - 08:29 pm: |
DOES ANYONE HERE KNOW OF WEBSITES, SEPCIALLY FOR INDIAN-AMERICAN COUPLES ? I AM AN INDIAN MARRIED TO AN AMERICAN GIRL. THANKS IN ADVANCE....
AK
| By SU on Saturday, September 22, 2001 - 06:37 am: |
Chaosgold,
The same dilemma here. My wife is Indian, she was born here in America, but here parents were born in India. They do not like me. I have a very good profession that pays well, I take very good care of my wife. She stays home with our infant son. After all this time her parents still have not accepted me. Her mother is cordial for the sake of her daughter, but her father acts as though I do not exist. When I accompany her to her parents home to visit her mother her father leaves the house before I arrive. Her siblings are rude to me. So my advice is if you make this huge jump, it will be a delicate journey. Your love will have to be strong!.
| By An American Girl on Saturday, September 22, 2001 - 06:27 am: |
Anil,
Why don't you just try being yourself with American girls. The girls that are worth your time will like you. Trust in yourself. Good Luck.
| By Anonymous on Thursday, September 27, 2001 - 07:00 pm: |
hello
i am an american italian i feel in love with an indian
man shashi , he is so wonderful i love everything about him , i love the indain culture , i love indian
food, the respect he gives me. indian people and there
culture are so wonderful i cant believe this is the first time expirenceing it . i would love to go to india and meet his family but he is afraid they wont except me because of who i am amer. i will love and honor there son. do you think this is going to work
between us , i need some advise from another indian
who is bias.
| By turok - the dinosaur hunter on Thursday, October 04, 2001 - 11:50 pm: |
typical case...haha allright from an indian guy who knows how these things are: and knows how indian men are: do the following for a fruitful relationship:
first: make sure he is not flirting with you and using you. You can judge this from his behavior with you. if he is a punjabi indian guy he has a very oily tongue and it changes instantly after marrige. "shashi" sounds punjabi so I thought I should tell you that. Try to judge how will be behave after marrige. BUT people vary and he may be atypical so he may be good.
second: ask this dude straight - is he going to follow his parents if they say NO to this relation.
if he says that he will defy them, make him marry you as soon as possible. Otherwise his family will try to get him away from you..
if you marry him and he has gone against his parents' wishes, in that case he has really sacrificed a lot for you as parents mean a lot to us. In which case dont screw around with other men after marriage. This guy will remain loyal to you as long as you dont get the itch to look around.
if he says no, let him be a pussy and marry a girl of his parents choice and regret for the rest of his life. peace.
| By yayati on Friday, October 05, 2001 - 10:11 pm: |
Hey turok I doubt your ndn guy. Hahahahah if you are then you r a TYPICAL backstabber. When a gora comes onto this forum and talks about how he finding it hard to love his ndn gf you keep yer mouth shut. WHY - you prick. why dont you give the same advice ? Why do you assume ndn guys are only doing this for their own selfish ends. Why dont you accuse the gora of the same thing ? Or the gori or the ndn girl ? Your always sounding off about ndn men. And YOU claim to be an ndn man - jerk. Tell me the truth you are either that biblebashing gora paul, Dexter or some other lunatic with a chip on yer shoulder. Let it go dude.
Let these people live their own lives - and if you are gonna attack people why single out just the ndn man ? Obviously as sissodia would say "I sense cunningness afoot" or some shitt like that. True, you are a very cunning. Heeeeeeee heeeeeeeeee heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
| By anon on Monday, October 08, 2001 - 02:59 am: |
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