| By FunLover on Thursday, August 26, 1999 - 09:05 pm: |
Dear Sirs/Madames,
Is this a spouse hunting site or what?
Kindly inform me, kind sirs/madames so that I can put my impressive (at least to me) resume out here. I have just finished including my latest achievements in it and, the ladies can have a field day at poking fun at it and, in the process fall in love with me. I have made some resolutions such as, doing the laundry atleast once a month, smoke less than three packs a day, get high only on Thursdays (natural herbs only, please), meditate (TM) every alternate day (which incidentally coincides with the day I have decided to get drunk) and in many other areas. These admirable resolutions, I am confident the worthy virgins agree with me on this, will be extremely conducive to a successful marriage.
Such discipline and introspection, I am sure, will bring me universal acclaim and a much needed mate. But kind sirs/madames please inform me if I can post such commendable achievements at this site so that they can be applauded by one and all and, be admired by the available maidens and bring success to my praiseworthy attempts to find a life mate for mutual spirutual growth and procreation (atleast 10).
May peace be with you kind Sirs/Madames
Yours Truly
FunLover
| By FunLover on Monday, August 30, 1999 - 04:27 pm: |
No response?
Have I offended the board? Or is my humble request unworthy of a response??
| By STEVENSON THADY on Sunday, September 26, 1999 - 06:02 am: |
No more marraiges in india, please you all know that our population is going to be one billion very soon. Avoid early marraiges , try to erradicate the illiteracy rate. If all young boys and girls of contemporary india tries , we can accomplish the goal very soon and I hope India will be the number one country in the world in every field. Talking on population explosion, I suggest the government should take stringent measures, in population control. This is from your brother in U.S.A. I LOVE INDIA I LOVE PAKISTHAN APNA DHARTHI MAHAN.
| By Sincerely... on Tuesday, September 28, 1999 - 09:27 pm: |
Funlover,
I would be most honored, but only 10??? I was hoping for 12! LOL! Your a riot!
Take Care,
Sincerely...
| By FunLover on Thursday, September 30, 1999 - 11:16 pm: |
Yes,
O'beautiful flower! Being a very kind and considerate person who has utmost respect for his future mate I have decided on 10. But if my future soul mate wishes for more, her wish is my command.
But if the strain of bringing up 12 children is too great for her, being a kind and considerate person, I have found a solution. I'll marry once again! As this may happen in our late 30s or 40s I know she will not have the stamina she once had. So, I'll strive to provide her a good companion who is strong, loving and helpful. This second lady will be between the age of 18 and 20 only. I implore, that you do not construe this as a selfish act of middleaged blues which some despicable men indulge in. This is solely for the benifit of my first soulmate to help her take care of our lovable children. We will offer the new partner all our love and affection just like that gentleman Russ on the Polygamy site!
I am sure my wives, children, nay, the whole world will applaud my kind gesture. Just the thought of such a loving picture of happiness and bliss of mia familia makes love surge through my loins, I mean my heart.
Thanks for the kind words Sincerely. You have recognized the humane, moral, ethical, loving me as the world usually does.
I have taken another momentous decision. I have stopped having the affair with my neighbour's wife. I am sure the worthy angels (including you Sincerely...) appreciate my discipline and the seriousness of my cause and are sure of the marital bliss that awaits you if you choose to accept me.
Thank you
FunLover
| By Sincerely... on Friday, October 01, 1999 - 01:46 am: |
FunLover,
Alas, I have found my dream man! One requirment of the third partner, she must do housework as my stamina will be withered in that department also. The line about love surging through loins/heart was a crack up! I had to stop laughing before I could type! Alright, we had our fun we must get serious now for those people seriously searching for their life partner. After all, not all can be as blessed as we are! ;o) Love reading your humorous stuff! Laughter does the heart good, like medicine...
Take Care,
Sincerely...
| By Anonymous on Tuesday, October 05, 1999 - 02:31 pm: |
I love India. I staid for one sabbatical year last year. I am professor in BM. I wish I could have met my sister soul. I found it is very difficult, because of the social rigidies. I am not desperate I hope I'll find. Instead judging me; try to help, it's better, isn'i it?
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| By Yanna on Monday, December 13, 1999 - 06:09 am: |
Nasmaste all,
Here I am this beautiful loving American woman looking to meet an intelligent, kind hearted South Asian man. Does anybody have any ideas? I have done the matrimonials and now I want to try something more creative. I have these really good Indian meals I am dying to cook for him.
Yanna
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| By raju on Monday, February 28, 2000 - 08:28 am: |
Hey everyone I need help! I'm 25, a 4th yr med-student and a classic "ABCD" American born and raised here all my life. I have been to India once when I was like 5 and don't remember anything. My father thinks it's best that I marry a girl born/raised in India! I mean he thinks that girls there who have been through the hardships of life and who aren't raised to have such an open, independent self determinant mind are the ideal ones for a successful marriage. I just find this stuff ridiculous, and could never see myself with a girl like this. I'm talking major culture shock. I have been going out with girls here since I was 18 and have had lots of experiences and many relationships. I've come to know exactly what I like and don't like in a woman. What is wrong with finding an indian girl raised here with the right values!!?? My dad wants the best for me but it's like he is genetically engineering my wife here which really sucks. He says that marriages here don't last, the divorce rate is sky high, ect...I really need examples and stories from anyone out there who knows someone or who themselves is going throgh the same exact thing as me. A few good examples of marriages that have lasted beween a guy born here and an indian girl born here or even better some examples of marriages between a guy in my situation and a girl BORN and RAISED in India all her life that ended in disaster or unhappiness. PLEASE HELP ME - this issue is killing me and I can't take arguing about it anymore...thanks
| By Leena on Monday, February 28, 2000 - 11:34 pm: |
Hang in there raju, and welcome to this site. I was born and raised in the US as well, and my parents prefer an arranged marriage for me (though not necessarily to a guy born and raised in India). I however have different perspective; I am committed to my relationship with my boyfriend of 1 year, Carlos.
I've been posting my experiences at IndiaTalking Main Menu: Family Marriage Sex Life Spouse Unspoken Truths Divorce Love Children Parents: Marrying a foreigner : International Marriages - Long Distance - Cyber Relations: How to Talk to Your Parents, Family For Marrying a 'Foreigner'. The URL is http://hindustan.net/discus/messages/54/1658.html?MondayFebruary2820000606pm
Tell us more about yourself. And remember that sometimes we need to deal with our parents with firm patience, just as they were firm and patient with us, as we grew up.
Leena
| By gurya on Friday, April 14, 2000 - 07:02 am: |
hi! i'm muniza. i'm 17 years old. i'm so worried about my future 'cause my mom engaged me to my cousin when i was 5 years old and i dont even know him 'cause he lives in pakistan and i'm from canada. i just went to wedding about a month ago and i met this guy there. and actually his family even asked my mom for my hand but my mom said no. well, we like eachother alot. i dont know what to do, and of course i dont wanna hurt my mom. so please help me!
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| By Z3 on Friday, July 21, 2000 - 10:36 pm: |
The hardest thing is finding a DECENT girl to marry. I live in UK and I have had a very hard time looking for someone Decent. All the girls here are too materialistic and don't know much about their culture. And I don't want to marry a girl in India.
You should see what they damand in the matrimonial columns. And when you meet them they want to see what car you drive, how much you make, how big is you house, etc. Alot of them are just not worth it in the end.
Why can't their be anyone simple these days?
| By Anonymous on Monday, July 24, 2000 - 03:00 am: |
z3.. it could be said this road is two ways. Many guys are also looking for 5'4 fair, Medical school graduated, good cook,family values with western upbringing from such and such family. There are decent women out there.. dont despair. However you have to be more specific about what u mean when u say decent.. and well, what cultural values do u mean.
| By sm on Sunday, November 12, 2000 - 04:27 pm: |
Hi! Z3
Here I am sm,recently came across your search for a decent girl in U.K. Well here I am ,an Indian girl working in uk atpresent.
I am looking for a decent Indian guy as well.
I would like to know more about you & share our moments.
Bye.
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| By TheDesiDude on Wednesday, August 08, 2001 - 09:55 pm: |
Hi all,
I have always believed that ABCD is no different than any other acronym that may be given. Calling folks ABCD etc is in my opinion not right.
I have also believe that EVERYONE is somewhat confused about something "ABCD's" may be confused about culture, or it is more of a deliema at some times and being a "non-abcd" I simply have different confusions.
Now I am in a difficult predicament, I like people if they are good, honest, straight forward people, my best friends are Americans, ass-white americans! however for marriage I am looking for someone sharing my culture and the Indian Philosophy, a girl in India is not that 4 me because I have been here 4 7 years now and lived among Americans, not done any typical desi stuff, simply because I did not, never made a very voluntary or planned decision....
I am not "Americanized enough" for the "ABCD's" I dont know what the problem is, but any help and/or advise will be appreciated.
The Desi Dude