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Sex with other ladies apart from wife
I am married 3 years ago.My wife was the first women i
touched & married her at the age of 30.I wish to have sex with any other lady as a trial(really i don't have guts to do so).My wife also permitted me to try sex with any other lady. I am affraid of sexually transmitted disease & dont want to be disgracefull to my wife. Before having intercourse me & my wife talk
sexy matters openly. What should i do. I suggested to her that we can share ourself with another couple for a change & satisfaction. Is it right to do so
Why do you want to take a risk of STD? Man you are lucky to have an understanding wife. It took you 30 years to touch a woman, and now that you "are a stud"
,you want to go and have sex with other women, Why?? your wife does not give you enough sex,either she is too naive or you are pushing her too hard to let you run around, man enjoy your wife, if you want to learn new positions, get on the network and view the positions of Kama Sutra, you will definitely change your sex life and if not go buy a dirty video tape and practice what you see with your wife, don't mess up your marriage by going outside, do it with your wife, man shave her pussy and put some whipped cream on it and lick, she will enjoy it and she might pay you back by putting whipped cream on your body and licking it up all the way, man you might even get a good old fashioned blow job...
So try it man and if you bring another man into your bed with your wife, she might like him better than you and it won't be good.. i will not say anymore.
Good Luck
Dear Raman - if you want to see what you might be missing in other sex partners simply watch some of the porn channels on tv (with your wife!). From my discussions with indian women, most of them are too shy to ask to try anything new or possibly different from what their male partner has asked for in the past. So, if she is willing to try new stuff then JUST DO IT! Watch a few movies and try to do some stuff as they do - but remember, these people film for HOURS altho it seems that they are ••••••• endlessly and changing positions easily. So just take some of the ideas and use them as the two of you want! This way you can know what other people are doing but not have to actually try other women out!
UNLESS what you are really saying is you are bored with your wife or she is "too large" for you now or you really feel you have to have sex with another women to feel complete.....so I ask this question, if you are going to do this are you also gonna allow your wife to screw other men...AND what if she likes the other guys screw better, OR what if you enjoy doing it with another women better or think you still need lots of other women but your wife doesn't want to do it with anyone else anymore and wants you to stop too? How in the world can you say you are married to someone which means they are the most important and wonderful person in the world to you - EXCEPT when it comes to sex, then they are not good enough? How sick!
if you allow your wife to have other men.......... then you are the one who is going to suffer. who knows, she may like those men better than you, and at the end of the day when you ask her to stop, she will turn back and say ..... it was not my idea, it was yours...... so enjoy it. LOL
and if you are planning to try out any other then the meaning and essence of marriage is lost. and man you are married for only three years and you are already bored....... your marriage wont last if you have thouhgts like this. you guys may be physically married but mentally divorced. so forget it man GO DRILL YOUR WIFE
Hey folks:
I don't think there is anything wrong in having sex with other women beside your spouse.... My husband does this all the times and so I do for fun. You are committed to your spouse for the rest of your life and if for the change of taste if you sleep with other people you may have a kind of fullfillment of what is missing from your household, just like a dinner at some fancy restaurant.... Then you come back and have your usual day-to-day routine. Only thing that matters, is to protect yourself from STDs, that's all......
NP
West Virginia
NP -
You may be legally married, but that is all. When you have a true marriage of the heart and soul, the thought of a sexual act with another is unacceptable. I could never conceive of letting another woman near my darling husband, or allow another man near me.
Rachel Sweetheart!!!! which planet are your from? Nobody in this world cares about heart and soul....trust me!!! give a closer look at your "darling husband" and find out how many women he has been goofing around with. Don't be so over confident with your spouse's fidelity. Every man is a punk when sexuality comes to his plate...... If penis has a self imposed right to visit other vagina, why the vagina shouldn't board the same boat????
NP
West Virginia
NP -
How sad to think that nobody in this world cares about your heart and soul. I am fortunate that my husband cherishes my heart, soul, and body.
Everyone is entitled to live their life the way that makes them happy. If a sexually open marriage pleases you, then go right ahead.
I am just making the point that there is another way to live. I would be miserable if I had your life. I think that marriage is sacred. I wouldn't even have an intimate conversation with another man.
As for my confidence in my spouse's fidelity, you are speaking from your own life experience. My life experience has been much different from yours. My confidence comes from knowing my husband as an honorable man. When he makes vows and promises, he means it.
NP
I see you are from West Virginia, "you are not a
hill billy who married his own sister as that was
the closest hole he could find"
Rachel: Go Girl.. tell'em, I agree with you.
Raman: A 30 year old virgin, gets married and becomes
a stud.....shame on you..
Rachel: I understand your "belief" in your husband. You can't understand my message behind this..... Mark this in your calender, and see for yourself....one day you will realize that evey single of my words will come true...Good Luck with your "darling" husband...
And you Raman: Shame on your mascualinity!!!you are 30 year old and still a virgin??? Huh!! Something is definitely missing here... Your must either be a "liar liar".....OR just find a good sex therapist and get a professional help soon...Good Luck
NP
West Virginia
RAMAN what is going on in ur head that ur thinking of actually letting another man touch ur wife, idunno but if i was ur wife i'd shove a shoe up ur A$$ and tell u to stop thinkin ur a stud. 30 year-old virgin? it sounds like a woman made that decision for u :-)
Raman: SO if I come over and do it to your wife and
she likes it,and she asks me to come back and do it again and one day she likes me more than you and wants
me and does not want you anymore as I take care of her
"Love Box" better than you can and she wants to leave you for me.....you will not like the result.
NP: I like your way of life, how often do you get it on the side ? I would love to meet you and get to know you better, I am in the DC area.. email me
Rachel: You have your belief...good luck
NP - We can agree to disagree on the issue of my husband's fidelity. However, between the two of us, I'd say that I carry the expert opinion, since I have been living with the man for 14 years.
You and I are just very different people. I am a woman made to have sex with one man, my husband - you, on the other hand, seem to be designed to service thousands of men. Best of luck to you.
Hi All,
This is a topic I wouldn't miss for the world. Raman!, I respect you for putting this out on this discussion but can I tell you something about religion and culture which have cuddled and snugged you for the past 30 years. yeah I'm talking about your family. before you got married. Think of your dad and mom having a man and a woman in their room and making love with each other partner and you found out. How disgusting. Where is your respect for your dad and mum. Now put yourself in that situation and awaken yourself. It's disgusting and immoral isn't it.
Imagine your wife who has never touched a man other than you touching a another man. Not a hug but body, his kissing, his "things". Imagine your wife with another man in front of you whatning them making love. Can you live through it. If you can ...GO AHEAD, GET A GIRL AND BLOW YOUR BRAINS OUT. You should do this before you decide to enjoy a girl. See whether you will allow another man touch your wife...!!!.
Why I can say this is because I have personnaly experienced this before and believe me I'm lucky that my wife is back to me. You wouldn't want to know more.
back then, I enjoyed myself with constant girlfriend (3 of them). I bed them next to my wife. She'll be sleeping or turning the other side. But one day I got curios and asked my girlfriend to bring her husband and make my wife think as if I am slleping with her. The plan was laid out and I am finding my wife spending more time in their house than mine because the my girlfriend is married to this guy who is liberal enough to let her wife to have a boyfriend. So 2 ladies and 2 guys and I was out of the picture in my wife's case. We rarely make love and found out that group sex is more satisfying and thing were going out of hand. We met a therapist (god bless his soul) and we are now back in our life (no more, outside food).
NP : My advise is you may have just started or you are what kamasutra define as forever lustful lady. You can never stand the sight of a man whom will arouse your lust and you lose yourself. Your husband is lucky coz he's using your weakness. Would you sleep with your uncle, neighbour or half-brother and let your husband ejoy their spouses. What a life !!!
Rachel : You are a gem of a lady. You are like my wife. My wife got lost because of my doing and now se is back with me. I totally agree (Raman, listen to us) with you. SEX IS NOT WHAT YOU SEEK
ANON: We are a team
PUNJABIGIRL : we are a team
DESITEXAN : You are an oppurtunist, first you say things as if it's all a sin, and when you see an oppurtunity with NP, you fall and try to get your hands under her skirt. IMMORAL AND UNCULTURED. GOD SAVE ALL OF US.
TEN COMMANDMENDS has a line which says "NO ADULTERY". It mean anybody other than your wife is a mother, sister, or a daughter.
A wife who shares her sex with other has a label. They are called PROSTITUTE or HOOKERS. Don't make your wife a prostitute or hooker.
Pls forgive me if I have directly or indirectly have insulted one or all of you. This is my opinion and my opinion only.
Rgds
IndianBoy
"Women are like Roses, handle them with care
and the thorns are your friend else they are
your thorny nightmare"
Mr.Raman what is the age of your wife. What is her level of knowledge about sex. People having different thinking about sex. For me only truth is your wife should get satisfaction and also you. As the erection time of male is less than female. You should take care that your wife should erect fist the u push her. For all these thing you must know the most sexy part of your wife so find out that. It is also it is important for your wife to know about your sexy points. So i suggest you to do all these things instead of going to other women's.
Rachel:
I thinik you sound like an immature woman. Despite being married for 14 long years, you still are unable to understand sexuality. I have no more additions to my earlier comments, except that you should wait and see for yourself!!!!. Thanks for complimenting for my unknown services to thousands of men.....JUST GROW UP YOU POOR LADY!!!!!!
IndianBoy: I usually don't comment on childish behavior....you are still an "indian boy" and you have a long way before you grow up".......
NP
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